For those who prefer the Android platform, I use an app called "Tap and Drill Chart Calculator". It lists preferred drill size, alternate drill sizes, %thread, material, tap type, metric, sae, and many other options. I love it. It's my goto reference for all thread jobs.
I like to tap small holes by hand on my drill press with the press only providing alignment and spring pressure through a small spring loaded tap centering device, and me doing the all the work.
Lastly, Joe Pie has a You Tube video on tapping small holes. It's golden.